London’s private clubs rally round to help the homeless

Mayor Rigby chats with guests. Photo: ICN

Source: Independent Catholic News

They are known as some of London’s most elite venues with a string of VIP guests going through their doors.

But Annabel’s, George, Harry’s Bar and Mark’s Club are also helping to feed the homeless at a West End church thanks to a service set up by a group of churches during the pandemic.

On 16th April the Lord Mayor of Westminster, Cllr Robert Rigby, visited the project and helped serve lunch to around 75 people on a visit to the Central London Catholic Churches Homeless lunch service run from Farm Street Church. Dario Mazzzolli, Dimitris Panopoulos and Camllia Fabbio, deputy director and managers at Annabel’s, who had provided the day’s food, also came to lend a hand. 

Set up in 2020 at the start of the coronavirus pandemic and supported by Westminster City Council, the service offers lunch twice a week in a large dining room. It is already supported with donations of food from five-star hotels including the Connaught, Claridges and the Mandarin Oriental.

The addition of the private members’ clubs will mean the service can continue to serve around 140 people per week.

Volunteers led by Father Dominic Robinson, parish priest of Mount Street Jesuit Centre at Farm Street, refer to the homeless diners as guests and serve them sitting at tables – making the point that those sleeping rough are deserving of dignity and respect.

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Bishop Nicholas Hudson Reflects on the Ongoing Conflict in the Holy Land

Image: Mazur/cbcew.org.uk

Source: CBCEW

Ahead of the Sacred Triduum, when we contemplate Christ’s passion, death and resurrection, Bishop Nicholas Hudson, Chair of the International Affairs department of the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of England and Wales, offers this reflection on the Holy Land.

Reflection

In this holiest of weeks, our hearts turn naturally to the Holy Land, the land in which Christ died and rose for the redemption of humankind. Our hearts are deeply saddened to witness the immense suffering borne still by so many of its inhabitants.

Of the 251 Israelis taken hostage in the 7 October Hamas attack, 59 remain unaccounted for. Of these, just 24 are believed to be alive. We hold firmly in our prayers their relatives and all who mourn these dead hostages. We hold just as firmly in our prayers the families of the tens of thousands of Palestinians – countless women and children among them – killed by the ensuing disproportionate bombardment. It is with profound distress that we witness the continuing suffering of countless innocent civilians. We pray the Spirit released by Christ on the evening that he rose from the dead (cf. John 20, 22) might be released anew in these lands to bestow on them the just peace for which so many of its inhabitants yearn.

We are profoundly concerned that, despite extensive multilateral efforts to secure a lasting ceasefire and bring an end to hostilities, there remains no sign of peace. Pope Francis constantly reminds us: “War is a human defeat. War does not solve problems; war is evil; war destroys.” (Pope Francis, General Audience, 4 December 2024) Peace benefits all; it is a sign of God’s kingdom on earth and enables us all to flourish.

We call on the international community to recognise that all the people of these lands have the right to live in safety and peace. These are not mere aspirations – they are inalienable rights grounded in the dignity of every person; rights that must be upheld. We particularly pray for the West Bank Christians and their neighbours, where many are deeply fearful for their future, as they see their homes encircled by new and rapidly expanding settlements and their freedom of movement drastically restricted.

In his Lenten message, Cardinal Pizzaballa, the Latin Patriarch of Jerusalem, reminds us that hope is the daughter of faith. It is with hope in our hearts that we sing at our Easter Vigil, “at night there are tears but joy comes with dawn” (Psalm 30): as Christ’s body is laid in the earth, we await with hope his Resurrection from the dead. Our heartfelt prayer this Holy Week is that there rise up in these lands a renewed desire and yearning on all sides for the cessation of hostilities and the finding of ways to a just peace which honours the humanity redeemed by Christ.

Palestinian Olive Oil Blessed at Chrism Mass

Olive harvest in Palestine. Photo – Zaytoun UK

Source: Ann Farr, Pax Christi

In Holy Week our thoughts and prayers are very much on the Holy Land and particularly on the last days of Jesus, as he approached Jerusalem.

In an act of deep symbolism and solidarity a number of Catholic and Anglican Dioceses have again chosen Palestinian Olive Oil as the base for their Holy Oils. These include the Catholic Dioceses of Arundel and Brighton, Birmingham, Liverpool, Nottingham, Southwark and Westminster and the Anglican Dioceses of Coventry, Leicester, Rochester, Sheffield and Southwark.

Each year, during the Chrism Mass, the local bishop blesses new oils for the diocese. The holy oils are then taken to each parish, where they are used for Sacramental anointing throughout the year.

This year we are again deeply shocked and saddened by all we see and hear from our friends and partners living in the Holy Land.

Palestinians are living in vastly increased poverty as unemployment rises to unprecedented levels and freedom of movement is denied throughout the occupied West Bank. As well as Palestinian olive trees being burst, cut down or uprooted throughout the year, gathering the harvest last Autumn proved to be a greater challenge than normal with extreme violence from the Israeli Military and Israeli settlers. Many families were refused access to their lands and their olives were stolen. We received terrible stories were during this time and sadly one woman farmer, Hanan Abu Salameh, was shot by an Israeli soldier while harvesting olives in Faqua, near Jenin.

Never has our solidarity and support for the Holy Land been needed more and this Easter it’s good to know that we are linked in such a special way to the Palestinian families who have produced the oil that will be used throughout the year in the Sacraments of the Sick, Baptism and Holy Orders and in the anointing of new bishops.

Canon Rob Esdaile, a priest of Arundel & Brighton Diocese, who has long been active in work for peace and justice, says: “The olive tree has long been a symbol of the heritage of the inhabitants of the Holy Land. 

“Psalm 133 uses the vivid image of olive oil running down a man’s beard as a symbol of peace in the community and of ‘brothers dwelling in unity’, while the same oil was used by Samuel to anoint both King Saul and King David.

“It is beyond tragic that Zionist settlers systematically and deliberately destroy Palestinian olive groves, while the annual olive harvest (always a communal effort in Palestinian settlements) in the face of military blockades and the theft of land has become a symbol of resistance and hope. Our liturgical use of Palestinian olive oil is both an act of solidarity and a very physical prayer for the peace of Jerusalem and of the whole Holy Land.”

While we take part in the services of Holy Week, we remember that many Palestinians have been refused permits from the Israeli Authorities to enable them to worship in Jerusalem. We are asked to keep them in our prayers as we hope for a Just Peace for all in the Holy Land.

Find out more about Palestinian Olive Oil at https://zaytoun.uk 

Ann Farr is a member of the Pax Christi International Working Group for a Just Peace in Palestine and Israel

Open Letter from Women of Faith on Assisted Dying

Photo: Theos

Source – Theos

Religious think-tank, Theos, has published an open letter signed by over 100 women from different faith traditions voicing significant concerns over the current proposed legislation for Assisted Dying.

We believe that the Terminally Ill Adults Bill has insufficient safeguards to protect some of the most vulnerable in society, particularly women subject to gender-based violence.

Colette Joyce, Justice and Peace Co-ordinator for the Diocese of Westminster, and Nikki Dhillon-Keane, Head of Safe in Faith for Caritas Westminster, are among the signatories.

Our open letter was reported on in The Guardian and the Church Times.

The full text is below:

Open letter from women of faith on assisted dying

4 April 2025

We write as a group of women of faith from different traditions and backgrounds passionate about care for people in vulnerable situations, many of whom have dedicated our professional lives to preventing male violence against women and girls.  

We hold a variety of views on the principle of legalising assisted dying. However, we are all clear that the current legislation – The Terminally Ill Adults Bill – progressing through parliament, has insufficient safeguards to protect some of the most marginalised in society, particularly women subjected to gender–based violence, and abuse by a partner, who also experience intersecting barriers to a full and safe life. 

We are concerned that the proposed legislation could create a new tool to harm vulnerable women, particularly those being subjected to domestic abuse and coercive control, by helping them to end their lives. 

report out last month showed that the number of domestic abuse victims who died by suicide in England and Wales was higher than the number of people killed by their abusive partner, for the second year running. 

We know too that domestic abuse victims who are also women of faith can face a particular form of abuse[1] at the hands of their perpetrators, who may weaponise theologies and culture to harm and control their victims. We are concerned that the assisted dying legislation, as it stands, fails to take account of how faith and its role at the end of life, as well as its use by both perpetrators and the women they abuse, create complex dynamics that can lead to vulnerable women, who may also hold strong religious beliefs, seeing no way out but death.

We know that poverty and other inequalities increase the risk of women and girls being subjected to violence, ill health and the quality of care and support they receive from statutory institutions and civil society. We know too that in a society riven with inequalities, women who are from Black and minoritised communities, disabled women, migrant women and working–class women, struggle to be heard. Their voices are absent from conversations about this bill, and so too are those subjective to coercive control or violence. It is unclear to us how the legislation and its consultative process has taken account of the multiplicity of faiths, cultures, socio–economic and health backgrounds of our citizens and women who make up our country. 

Much of the debate inside and outside parliament has been conducted by those empowered to speak of the importance of personal choice, without consideration of those who struggle to be heard in the public square. It is the voices of the unheard, ignored, and marginalised that we are compelled by our faith traditions and scriptures to listen and draw attention to, in the pursuit of good law–making for the common good – legislation that considers and protects the most vulnerable, not just those who speak loudest.

Having followed the progress of the bill through parliament, we are particularly concerned about: 

  • The risk that people (mainly women) with controlling and abusive partners (mainly men) will be coerced into assisted death. While we welcome the adopted amendments that stipulate training for the assessing doctors and the panel members, this safeguard only comes into play after someone has already been coerced into declaring that they want an assisted death, and will clearly not catch all cases. We also know, from research and experience, that coercive control is a long–term process that is both insidious and subtle with women often unaware of it until the perpetrator’s behaviour escalates. 
  • The reality that since 2016, deaths by suicide have been included in the scope of domestic homicide reviews and there is growing research on women who die by suicide as directly linked to having an abusive partner. We are concerned that if this legislation passes, women may seek assisted deaths to end their suffering at the hands of an abuser. Domestic Homicide Reviews also reveal the disproportionate number of Black and minoritised women who are failed by statutory and state agencies like the police, social services, health services and specialist services like substance misuse and mental health and women’s services despite their calls for help.    
  • There are no longer High Court protections embedded in the Bill
  • There are insufficient protections for those with learning disabilities and people with anorexia. 
  • The use of the vehicle of the Private Member’s Bill for this landmark legislation. This has resulted in the impact assessment being shared after the Bill Committee stage, which makes it difficult for all of us with concerns about inequalities to gauge how this legislation will affect Black and minoritised and faith communities, people with disabilities, and those experiencing economic disadvantage.

If assisted dying is seen as a response to alleviate suffering, without addressing the underlying structural issues that make life difficult and safeguard against harm, it could put undue pressure on vulnerable women to choose death over inadequate care.

This is no way to legislate, especially not on matters of life and death. We have serious concerns about the bill and its lack of safeguards. The bill has too much potential to hurt vulnerable people and so we are uniting as women from across faith traditions to speak up for vulnerable women, including victims of violence against women and girls, and disabled women, and raise our concerns publicly.

Signatories:

  1. Chine McDonald, director, Theos
  2. Bekah Legg, CEO, Restored
  3. Huda Jawad, co–founder and executive director, Faith and VAWG Coalition
  4. Sam Clifford, CEO, Jewish Women’s Aid
  5. The Rt Revd and Rt Hon Dame Sarah Mullally DBE, Bishop of London
  6. Dr Naomi Green, Assistant Secretary General, Muslim Council of Britain
  7. Professor Sheila The Baroness Hollins, President, The Catholic Union of Great Britain
  8. Rabbi Debbie Young–Somers
  9. Zara Mohammed, former secretary general, Muslim Council of Britain
  10. Hannah Rich, director, Christians on the Left
  11. Revd Dr Helen Paynter, founding director, Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence
  12. Naomi Lerer, CEO, Noa Girls 
  13. Amanda Jackson, senior advisor on diversity, World Evangelical Alliance
  14. The Rt Revd Rachel Treweek, Lord Bishop of Gloucester and Anglican Bishop for HM Prisons
  15. Commissioner Jenine Main, Territorial Leader, The Salvation Army, United Kingdom and Ireland
  16. Louisa Collyer–Hamlin, Head of External Affairs, Catholic Union
  17. Patricia Stoat, Science Health & Bioethics Committee of the National Board of Catholic Women
  18. Rt Revd Rose Hudson–Wilkin, Bishop of Dover
  19. Dr Sahira Dar, president, British Islamic Medical Association
  20. Rachel Fink, CEO, S&P Sephardi Jewish Community
  21. Tola Doll Fisher, Creative Director and Editor, Premier Woman Alive
  22. Elizabeth Harris Sawczenko, OBE, Interfaith consultant 
  23. Nikki Dhillon Keane, Head of Caritas Safe in Faith
  24. Jagbir Jhutti–Johal, Professor of Sikh Studies, University of Birmingham 
  25. Professor Tina Beattie, Professor Emerita of Catholic Studies, University of Roehampton, London
  26. The Rt Revd Dr Joanne Woolway Grenfell, Bishop of Stepney and Lead Safeguarding Bishop for the Church of England
  27. Natalie Collins, author and activist
  28. Sian Rees, head of Bible Society Wales
  29. Rt Revd Dr Jill Duff, Anglican Bishop of Lancaster
  30. The Rt Revd Vivienne Faull, Lord Bishop of Bristol
  31. Rev Catherine De Souza, CEO, Prison Fellowship England & Wales
  32. ​​Sally Hope, Domestic Abuse Practitioner and Writer
  33. Dr Selina Stone, Lecturer in Theology and Ethics, University of Edinburgh
  34. Dawn McAvoy, Both Lives UK
  35. Mandy Marshall, Director for Gender Justice, Anglican Alliance and Anglican Communion
  36. Revd Jenni Entrican, Former President of the European Baptist Federation
  37. Alicia Edmund, Head of public policy Evangelical Alliance
  38. Dr Madeleine Pennington, Quaker writer and head of research, Theos 
  39. Damilola Makinde, Advocacy engagement lead, Evangelical Alliance
  40. Julia Bicknell, ex–BBC Woman’s Hour producer; lay chaplain for asylum seekers/refugees
  41. The Rt Revd Dr Rosemarie Mallett, Bishop of Croydon
  42. Rev Mae Christie, Vicar, All Saints, Tooting
  43. Joy Madeiros, Co–Founder, Oasis UK
  44. Ann–Louise Graham, journalist and biblical counselor
  45. Prof. Anna Rowlands, St Hilda Professor of Catholic Social Thought and Practice
  46. Canon Dr Sanjee Perera, lay canon of Liverpool Cathedral, organisational psychologist and theologian
  47. Aja Thorburn, writer 
  48. Michelle Tant, Midwifery Lecturer and writer
  49. Joanna Davey, editorial director, Hodder Faith 
  50. Rev Bryony Taylor, Rector of Barlborough and Clowne and Author
  51. Dr Elizabeth Dalgarno, director, SHERA research group
  52. Dr Caroline Hull, national director, Aid to the Church in Need (UK)
  53. Amy Summerfield, CEO, Kyria Network 
  54. Rev Liz Clutterbuck, Priest–in–Charge Emmanuel Hornsey Road, Islington
  55. Rev Leonora Wassell, Co–Chair, Methodist Women in Britain
  56. Rebecca (Bex) Chapman, General Synod member and vice–chair, Christians in Media
  57. Debra Green OBE, CEO, ROC
  58. Alice Gray, palliative care doctor and assistant pastor, Oasis Church, Birmingham
  59. Ruth Parrott, former president and co–chair, Methodist Women in Britain
  60. Shermara Fletcher–Hoyte, Principal Officer for Pentecostal, Charismatic and Multi–cultural Relations, Churches Together in England
  61. Catherine Butcher, author, lay reader, and member of General Synod
  62. Faith Van Horne, PhD, Theology and Religion, University of Birmingham 
  63. Jamie Phear, writer and speaker 
  64. Rachel Muers, Professor of Divinity, University of Edinburgh 
  65. Jayne Manfredi, Anglican Deacon
  66. Katharine Lock
  67. Rev Cham Kaur–Mann, Co–Director, Next Leadership
  68. The Rt Revd Esther Prior, Bishop of Aston
  69. Rev Dr Kate Coleman, Co–Director, Next Leadership
  70. Rosemary Nuamah–Williams, policy Adviser and advocate
  71. Jo Chamberlain, National Environment Officer, Church of England Environment Programme
  72. Dr Usha Reifsnider, Co regional Director, Lausanne Europe, Cultural Theology Consultant
  73. ​​Lucy Butt, CEO, Bramber Bakehouse
  74. Dr Janet Soskice, Professor of Philosophical Theology, Emeritus, University of Cambridge
  75. Stella Mbubaegbu CBE, FE College Principal & Chief Executive
  76. Mary McHugh, National Board of Catholic Women of England and Wales
  77. Hope Virgo, author, campaigner and Secretariat for the APPG for Eating Disorders
  78. Rev Bev Thomas Ecumenical Minister & Social Justice Advocate
  79. Rev Claire McClelland, Head of Chaplaincy, Newcastle upon Tyne Hospitals 
  80. Rev Jenny Kimble, Dean of Undergraduate Studies, Regents Theological College
  81. Rev. Michelle Nunn, Principal, Regents Theological College, and Member of Elim’s National Leadership Team
  82. The Venerable Karen Best, Archdeacon of Manchester  
  83. Dr Anne Richards, Policy Adviser, Church of England
  84. Revd Dr Hannah Lewis, Lead Chaplain among the Deaf Community, Diocese of Oxford
  85. Janie Oliver, CEO, Stewardship
  86. Dr Calida Chu, Associate Editor, Practical Theology
  87. The Revd Jessica Monopoli, Assistant Curate, St Mary’s Cockerton, and Clergy Lead at The Haven in Darlington, Co. Durham
  88. Bobbi Kumari, founder, Living in Light 
  89. Barbara Earl, Croydon Quakers
  90. Danielle Finch, freelance writer (disability, family & faith)
  91. Rev. Rebecca Amoroso, Hospital Chaplain
  92. Christina Mottram, retired lay Catholic hospital chaplain, Leicester Hospitals
  93. Salomé Criddle, CEO, Thriving Women In Real Life
  94. Revd Dr Joanne Cox– Darling, Methodist presbyter
  95. Anupama Ranawana, Postdoctoral Researcher, Department of Theology and Religion, University of Durham
  96. Danielle Wilson, Pioneer Pastor, Birmingham
  97. Dr Claire Williams OMS, Lecturer in Practical Theology, Academic Inclusion Advocate, Regents Theological College
  98. Reverend Joyce Fletcher, National Executive Director of Women and Family for the Church of God of Prophecy
  99. Dionne Gravesande, trustee of Restored and co–chair, National Church Leader Forum
  100. Dr Beverley Samways, Director, Unique Connections
  101. Alianore Smith, member of the General Synod of the Church of England
  102. Revd Novette Headley,  Chair – Birmingham Methodist District
  103. Colette Joyce, co–ordinator, Justice and Peace Commission, Diocese of Westminster
  104. The Revd. Lis Goddard, vicar, St James the Less Pimlico
  105. Doreen Patricia Waugh, domestic abuse practitioner, Justice and peace representative
  106. Rev. Sarah Whittleston, National Elim Prayer Director
  107. Dr Eve Poole OBE Lay Canon, York Minster 
  108. Revd Alexandra Lilley, Vicar, St George and All Saints Tufnell Park and Dean of Women’s Ministry
  109. Michelle Dumont
  110. Revd. Canon Kate Wharton, Vicar of St. Bartholomew’s Church, Roby, Liverpool, General Synod member, and Prolocutor of the Lower House of the Convocation of York.
  111. Rani Joshi – South Asian Forum coordinator / Evangelical Alliance
  112. Baroness Shaista Gohir – CEO, Muslim Women’s Network UK 

This initiative follows a meeting organised in partnership with the Faith and Violence Against Women and Girls Coalition, and Restored, facilitated by Jewish Women’s Aid, and brought together by Theos.

For more information, see:

Addressing Spiritual Abuse in Ending Violence Against Women – Faith & VAWG Coalition

The Meaning of Dignity: What’s beneath the assisted dying debate? – Theos 

Jubilee Year: Mass for Migrants at Westminster Cathedral – 5 May 2025, 2.00pm

Invitation to attend the Mass for Migrants

In this special Jubilee Year, you are warmly invited to join the three ‘London’ Dioceses of Brentwood, Southwark and Westminster for the annual Mass for Migrants on Bank Holiday Monday, 5th May 2025 at Westminster Cathedral, starting at 2.00pm with a procession of banners. 

This year the Mass is hosted by the Diocese of Westminster at Westminster Cathedral. 

The Mass for the Feast of St Joseph the Worker is prepared by the Justice & Peace Commissions, Caritas and Ethnic Chaplaincies of the three Dioceses and celebrates the contributions made to faith, life and work in the UK by all those who come from other countries to make a home here.

Music will be provided by musicians from the Lourdes Mass and a variety of Ethnic Chaplaincy choirs. We will also be joined by community organisers from London Citizens

Our celebrant and preacher this year is Cardinal Michael Fitzgerald MAfr OBE. Cardinal Fitzgerald is a British Cardinal who headed the Pontifical Council for Interreligious Dialogue from 2002 to 2006. He has held the rank of archbishop since 2002 and was apostolic nuncio to Egypt and delegate to the Arab League, prior to his retirement in 2012.  Pope Francis raised him to the rank of cardinal on 5 October 2019. He is one of the leading experts on Islam, Christian–Muslim relations and interreligious dialogue in the international Catholic Church. He is fluent in Arabic.

Parishes and Catholic organisations are welcome to bring banners for the procession. Everyone is invited to wear national dress. Those taking part in the procession are invited to arrive from 1.30pm where light refreshments will be provided and a locked space in which to leave possessions during the Mass.

Do come along and bring the family, whether you are from a migrant background or not! It is always a colourful and a lively occasion.

Fr Dominic Robinson SJ, Chair of the Westminster Justice and Peace Commission, writes:

“We truly hope that you can join us and we can fill the Cathedral on this day when we give thanks to God for the universal gift of work and for the huge contribution of migrants to our city.  This annual event is such an important one in our Churches’ calendar as it represents the presence and involvement of so many Catholics from diverse ethnic communities, a mark of our true catholicity. 

And at a time when we see a reluctance or hostility to truly welcome the stranger in our midst, this gathering takes on a prophetic role too as we are called to celebrate with great enthusiasm our diverse musical gifts, national dress, our cultural diversity in all its richness, and so witness to the dignity of every human person and the dignity of fulfilling work as a gift from God for all”.  

Links

Archdiocese of Westminster

Archdiocese of Southwark

Diocese of Brentwood

London Citizens

Westminster Justice and Peace Commission

Caritas Westminster

Jerusalem Bishop William Shomali Addresses Ecumenical Gathering in London

Bishop William Shomali (l) with Bishop Jim Curry. Photo: ICN

Source: Jo Siedlecka, ICN

Bishop William Shomali, Patriarchal Vicar for Jerusalem and Palestine, gave a moving account on the situation of Christians in the Holy Land at Bloomsbury Baptist Church in London on Monday. The ecumenical event was attended by representatives from many denominations, including Bishop Jim Curry from RC Diocese of Westminster and Bishop Mike Royal, General Secretary of Churches Together.

Bishop Shomali began with a summary of the history of the Holy Land, which he said has been suffering from a “devastating conflict for the past hundred years.” While the Jewish people, based on their interpretation of the Bible claim the land is theirs given to Abraham and his descendants by God, the Palestinians assert that their roots date back to the Canaanites who lived there 3000 years BC. Thus he said: “There are two narratives, two claims and two perspectives on the history and geography of the land.”

“My intention is not to advocate for one side against the other or to discuss the injustices and crimes committed in this land called Holy” Bishop Shomali said. “Instead I aim to present the situation from a humanitarian perspective and delve into the condition of the Christian community which has lived there for 2000 years without interruption…”

Fr Dominic Robinson SJ (Chair) and Colette Joyce (Co-ordinator) also attended the event on behalf of Westminster Justice and Peace.

Continue reading on Independent Catholic News

Westminster Holy Land Roundtable

The Westminster Holy Land Roundtable is an open discussion forum where anyone with a connection to the Diocese can come and share news, events and ideas to help formulate a common response to the war in Gaza. The next meeting takes place Saturday 5 April 2025, 4-6pm, at Farm Street Arrupe Hall. Bishop Jim Curry will be speaking about his recent visit to the Holy Land. New participants welcome

Westminster Holy Land Roundtable

Friends of the Holy Land

Names released of over 50,000 people killed in Gaza

Prayer for a Ceasefire in Gaza in Mount Street Gardens

Source: Independent Catholic News

The names and ID numbers of more than 50,000 people killed by Israel in Gaza in the last 18 months have been published by Iraq Body Count (IBC) a database of official statistics complied from hospital, morgue, NGO and other official records. (It does not count many thousands more people reported missing whose remains are under the rubble.)

The 981 page list makes chilling reading. One researcher said: “Reading out of names of the Gaza dead is a very spiritual ritual. Though at 10 names per minute it would take 83 hours non stop to read them all out. Even just reading out the 876 names of babies killed under the age of one would take 90 minutes.”

John Sloboda, a Roman Catholic who is a member of the Westminster Justice and Peace Holy Land Roundtable and a co-founder of Iraq Body Count, told ICN:

“Naming those killed is the most basic way of recognising and honouring their dignity as individuals. Contemplating unimaginably large numbers can freeze us into helpless immobility, or lock us into abstractions…” Continue reading on ICN

The next meeting of the Westminster Holy Land Roundtable takes place on Saturday 5th April, 4-6pm, at Farm Street Church, 114 Mount Street, London, W1K 3AH and is facilitated by Colette Joyce, the Westminster Justice and Peace Co-ordinator.

Westminster Holy Land Roundtable, 5th April, 4-6pm: Register with Eventbrite

Read the list here: www.iraqbodycount.org/pal/moh_2025-03-23.pdf

Nikki Dhillon-Keane writes on assisted suicide: protecting victims of domestic abuse

Nikki Dhillon-Keane

Source: CBCEW / thetablet.co.uk

Nikki Dhillon Keane, founder of Safe in Faith UK, is a therapist who helps survivors of abuse and Head of Service at Caritas Safe in Faith on domestic abuse and assisted suicide.

‘The criminal justice system is just acknowledging the scale of possible criminal culpability in domestic abuse and suicide, while at the same time, a bunch of MPs seek to make it non-criminal.’

The questions raised by the proposed Terminally Ill Adults (End of Life) Bill are highly complex. It is difficult to imagine the deeply personal experience of terminal illness, for patients and their families. Raising questions about the safety of proposed legislation should in no way be viewed as a lack of compassion for people nearing the end of their lives; rather as an attempt to ensure that all people affected by this legislation, particularly the most vulnerable, are safe from harm.

There is one particularly vulnerable group for whom this legislation could significantly increase risk: victim/survivors of domestic abuse.  Often invisible, they have, until very recently, been all but totally absent from the debate around assisted suicide.  For many people being subjected to domestic abuse, however, this danger is all too evident.

Shortly after the evidence session of the Committee stage of the bill began. I found myself listening to Helena (not her real name), who was telling me why she was so worried about the bill: “It’s not for the same reason that other people have a problem with it,” she tells me.

Helena is a domestic abuse survivor, who used to live with her former husband in a country with legalised assisted dying. She explained her fear: “It is when your spouse wants to kill you, and the state gives them a totally legal way to do it…”

As a disabled woman, Helena had a higher risk of domestic abuse. In the UK, one in two deaf and disabled women experience domestic abuse during their lifetime. Helena continued: “My husband used to threaten to euthanise me if he got fed up with being my carer.” She tells me that legislation had expanded there to include chronic, not just terminal, illness – the all-too-familiar slippery slope.

For almost 20 years, Helena was subjected to coercive control by her then husband. Recognised in the UK as a criminal offence under the serious crimes act 2015, coercive control is the umbrella under which all the other forms of domestic abuse are perpetrated. Threats and isolation are common tactics, as is weaponising whatever is available for the perpetrator to gain and maintain control. If a victim has a disability or chronic illness, it is very common for that to be used by the perpetrator as part of the abuse, restricting access to medication, or aids such as wheelchairs or hearing aids. If the perpetrator also has the role of carer, escape – or even a chance to safely disclose abuse – can be almost impossible. Disability or illness can leave domestic abuse victims completely trapped with their abuser.

I have spent most of the last quarter century working with victim/survivors of domestic abuse. Coercive control, which tends to escalate slowly and subtly over time, can be extremely hard to recognise, even for those being subjected to it. It is even harder to prove. Any signs of physical harm are probably well hidden, or more often not present at all. Sometimes the first act of physical violence is the fatal one. More often, however, when domestic abuse becomes fatal, it is through suicide. An estimated three women take their life every week as a direct result of domestic abuse. A further 30 female domestic abuse survivors contemplate suicide every day. Recognition of the causal link between domestic abuse and suicide is a very recent development in British law. Domestic Abuse Related Death Reviews (which unlike Domestic Homicide Reviews, investigate domestic abuse related suicide) were only introduced in May 2024. While this development is welcome, most health and social work professionals receive little or no training in coercive control, missing opportunities to prevent further deaths.

Proposed amendments to the assisted suicide bill would require mandatory training for professionals to help them spot coercion. Most likely, this is intended as an important protection against relatives, motivated perhaps by thoughts of a dwindling inheritance, gently pressuring a terminally ill relative to consider the option of a swift assisted death, rather than expensive palliative care. However, training to help professionals recognise a terminally ill person wishing for death as the only escape from the torment of abuse is a more complex matter.

Macmillan Cancer Support has released a toolkit for professionals working with cancer patients to help them recognise domestic abuse. Just as they do with disabilities, domestic abuse perpetrators tend to weaponise critical or terminal illness as part of their abuse. Domestic abuse victims and perpetrators can be any age. Sometimes perpetrators abuse their spouse for decades. We need to be aware that there is a very real possibility that someone nearing the end of their life may also be a victim of domestic abuse, and that this is likely to affect decisions about assisted suicide.

Given the high levels of suicidality among victims, and the control that abusers have over them, it is easy to see how assisted suicide legislation could be twisted into a method for perpetrators to kill their spouse with impunity.  Prof Jane Monkton-Smith, a specialist in fatal coercive control, has shared her fears about the bill on social media: “The CJS [criminal justice system] is just acknowledging the scale of possible criminal culpability in domestic abuse and suicide, whilst at the same time, a bunch of MPs seek to make it non-criminal.”

Currently, in the UK, a woman is murdered by her partner or former partner every five days. In countries where assisted suicide is legalised there is (perhaps unsurprisingly) a significant lack of research into any potential links between legally assisted suicides and domestic abuse. However, there is information from the UK regarding so-called “mercy killings”. This is a term used to describe someone being killed illegally but with the claimed intent to relieve suffering. A disturbing review of over 100 UK mercy killings by the research centre The Other Half found that “mercy killings are not the wanted, hastened deaths that need assisted dying. They are overwhelmingly violent domestic homicides of women by men”.

Whatever views people may have about what it means to die with dignity, it is clear that there are serious risks which would arise from passing the assisted suicide bill into legislation. As Helena put it: “I just don’t want anyone living with the fear and threats that I had. Whatever we do, we need to make sure that we don’t open the door to another way for men to harm women and get away with it.”

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Barbara Kentish speaks at the Home Office Vigil for Migrants and Asylum Seekers 17 March 2025

London Catholic Worker members at the 17 March 2025 Home Office Vigil. Photo: LCW

The regular monthly Home Office Vigil was held on 17 March 2025, to commemorate the thousands of refugees who have died, trying to reach a place of safety in Europe.

Barbara Kentish writes:

We heard today from a brother who simply asks the international community for a humanitarian system, a recognition that ordinary people are destroyed in the current world order. And we heard from the gospel reading Jesus’s simple message – Be compassionate, as your heavenly Father is compassionate. Give and it will be given back to you.

How do we keep on being compassionate, calling for compassion, giving compassion in this broken world? I want to share an experience I had recently which struck a chord, and showed me one or two ways we manage to keep on feeling and showing this compassion.

A week ago we celebrated International Women’s Day, and I was asked to talk about our Home Office Vigil from a women’s perspective, which I found difficult, as the people we commemorate are women and men, probably more of the latter. And the people who come to pray are women and men. Reading through the months of stories for inspiration, however, I did come across stories such as this one that we read a few months ago, which seems very immediate, because it is one woman, and she is named, as is her child:

A mother and baby from Senegal, both called Touré, died on a boat adrift for over a week in the Mediterranean. A bag containing the baby’s food fell into the sea, and he starved to death. His mother died from exhaustion and grief. Their bodies were thrown into the sea. What an agony for that mother.

There seem to be more women recorded amongst the deaths of those travelling from Senegal via the Canary islands. Maybe this is a recent trend. Women travelling are nearly always more vulnerable than the men. Such desperation, to make them take to the boats. But to think of one example, one woman, one baby, brings home an immediacy that numbers can blunt. A name, a person.

In my Women’s day celebrations I met women involved in craft work, whether art, knitting or weaving. This resonated with me, as I love making things: I do lots of crochet work, making jumpers or cardigans. Creative work really restores the soul in some way, even though most of the finished products will never be seen in any art galleries. It’s our need to contribute something to the world, to celebrate the beauty around us. How do we create beauty in this broken asylum system, where so many lives are ground down or simply damaged? We create together, we cook together, we sing together. We make beauty. And that is where God gives back, a hundredfold, pressed down and running over.

I am going to read a poem by a Lutheran minister that was read at my gathering on International Women’s Day. It’s called ……

To Weavers Everywhere

God sits weeping
The beautiful creation tapestry
She wove with such joy
Is mutilated, torn into shreds,
Reduced to rags,
Its beauty fragmented by force.

God sits weeping.
But look!
She is gathering up the shreds
To weave something new.

She gathers
The rags of hard work
Attempts at advocacy,
Initiatives for peace,
Protests against injustice,
All the seemingly little and weak
Words and deeds offered
Sacrificially
In hope, in faith, in love.

And look!
She is weaving them all
With golden threads of Jubilation
Into a new tapestry,
A creation richer, more beautiful
Than the old one was!

God sits weaving
Patiently, persistently,
With a smile that
Radiates like a rainbow
On her tear-streaked face.

And She invites us
Not on1y to keep offering her the
Shreds and rags of our suffering
And our work,

But even more –
To take our place beside Her
At the Jubilee Loom,
And weave with her
The tapestry of the New Creation.

Marchiena Rienstra (Presbyterian minister and poet)

More Information

Monthly Memorial Prayer Vigil for Refugees and Asylum-Seekers
On the 3rd Monday of every month outside the Home Office, SW1P 4DF, 12:30pm to 1:30pm

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Praying for

  • Those who died trying to reach the UK
  • Victims of current wars
  • Those in detention and who are homeless
  • The UK to be a more welcoming nation

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